Beauty – how can we promote self image acceptance and other things when we have this going on? My daughter did the whole pageant thing and won until Jon Benet happened, and then of course, everywhere we went, people would stop and say “WOW – you’re so beautiful – you look just like that murdered girl!!” NOT the best thing to say to a 5 year old, and we were done with the pageants right then and there, because Deeds really thought someone would try to kill her. I WISH people would THINK before opening their mouths sometimes….myself included, of course.